Lately I have encountered conversations, questions, and situations involving The 90 Day Rule. For those who don’t know, The 90 Day Rule is a rule that some women have that in its simplest form says that she will not engage in sexual intercourse with a man before knowing or dating him for 90 days. A lot of women today love to ask themselves questions that really don’t have a correct answer. For example, “At what point in a relationship is the right time to have sex?” The answer is that it depends on the people involved. I hope that helps.
To all my male readers, I have said this many times and I will say it again. Women love sex just as much as men if not more. Rules like this are ridiculous. Most women with The 90 Day Rule already know if they are going to sleep with you within the first 30 seconds of meeting you. Some claim they want romance. Some claim they want you to earn it. Whatever. Women are complex creatures. Sometimes their minds work in ways that don’t really make sense. For example. I live in Las Vegas and meet many women. It is not unusual for me to meet a woman who presents herself in a “wholesome” way and then within 5 minutes, she is ready to jump my “bone”. Go figure.
All you men out there who are being presented with The 90 Day Rule need to ignore it. It should go thru one ear and out the other. If a woman feels that strongly about not having sex with you, then move on. There is no need for any man who is worth a damn to ever engage in these kind of conversations with women in a real situation. Once she starts controlling you with sex, she will have all the POWER. You can’t let that happen. If you are displaying all the characteristics most women are attracted to (confidence, sense of humor, be a challenge, make her feel safe), you will get more sex than you can handle.