Here is the scenario. A laid back NICE guy is dating a sexy, somewhat aggressive woman. They are at her place and she is horny as hell. She kisses him on the cheek. Caresses his chest. He resists. After minutes of frustration, she asks him a question? “What do I have to do to get sex from you?” The man utters the lame line “ I am respecting you as a woman by not having sex with you.” Really? Although I do agree that a man should be able to control his libido, but is rejecting a woman sexually really a good idea?
It really depends on what set of eyes you are looking through. If a man is not giving in simply because he wants a challenge then the above scenario is not too unrealistic. Men love a challenge. Sometimes a woman who is too loose becomes more of a turn-off than a turn-on. He may use different words when expressing his thoughts on the situation. For example , he may say something like: “I am looking for something deeper than just quick physical gratification”. Secondly, if the man described above really believes what he is saying, the situation could be devastating to the woman. Women who get rejected by men can develop self esteem issues, become angry with the man, or just outright lose their minds. This is true for the average woman or the woman with power and status. So the next time you find yourself in this situation, you better know what you want and be able to express it the right way. Have you ever been in this situation?